Mental wellbeing

Poor sleep: what to try and what to discuss

Review your sleep routine, keep useful notes, and prepare for a conversation with your care team.

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Start by noting what happens at night and how you feel during the day. If poor sleep affects your daily activities, bring those observations to a healthcare professional. A short sleep record can help you describe the pattern and prepare questions for your visit.

Make room for a calmer sleep routine

Choose a bedtime and wake-up time you can keep consistently, including on days off. A quiet, cool, dark bedroom can support sleep. If your schedule or home environment makes these changes difficult, note what you can manage and what gets in the way.

Notice when you have caffeine or nicotine. Both can interfere with sleep, and caffeine’s effects can last for hours. Alcohol near bedtime may make you feel sleepy at first, but it can disrupt sleep. Jot down when you use these substances so you can describe the timing at your visit.

Bring a short sleep record

A sleep diary kept for one to two weeks can help prepare for a visit. Record when you go to bed and get up, any naps, how sleepy you feel during the day, and when you have caffeine or alcohol or exercise. Approximate times are useful; mark them as estimates rather than trying to reconstruct every minute. Bring the diary to review with your healthcare professional.

Add notes about when the problem began, how often it happens, and whether falling asleep or staying asleep is difficult. Describe whether you feel rested and how sleep affects your day. If someone has noticed loud snoring, or you wake gasping or out of breath, include that detail. Your healthcare professional may also ask about your health history, medicines, sleep habits, and use of caffeine, nicotine, or alcohol.

Discuss evaluation and treatment options

Ask what might be contributing to your sleep problems and whether an evaluation or further testing would be useful. A sleep study may be considered as part of an assessment; your clinician can determine whether one is needed.

For long-term insomnia, cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I, is usually recommended as the first treatment option. CBT-I is a structured approach that includes ways to address thoughts and behaviors around sleep. Ask whether it may fit your situation and what the treatment involves. Ask a qualified professional for guidance before trying sleep restriction, one component of CBT-I.

If you use over-the-counter products or are considering sleep medicine, tell your clinician and ask about possible benefits and side effects. Bring a list of medicines and products you take. Before the visit ends, ask what to try next, when to follow up, and whom to contact with questions. Add the agreed next step to your notes.

Sources

  1. NHLBI: Healthy Sleep Habits
  2. NHLBI: Insomnia Diagnosis
  3. NHLBI: Insomnia Treatment
  4. NHLBI: Sleep Studies

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